Nothing is better than hearing people say you’re doing a great job raising your child. I think every parent goes through the doubts and questions “Am I doing a good job here?” I mean, we don’t have yearly reviews or anything like a job outside the home does. So we just hope and cross our fingers that our little munchkins make it through to adulthood, unscathed and with a good head on their shoulders. Anything after 18… well good luck kid!
Every Wednesday Houston and I go listen to our friend Paul perform at a local coffee shop. Its usually a small gathering and a lot of fun. Normally this is my time to get out of the house and have non-baby time for a couple hours but there has been a time or two that we have taken Madison with us and as usual she is super well behaved. She loves being out and about, and of course loves the attention she gets from everyone.
The past month or so there has been another couple that brings their daughter and for the most part the little one is rather behaved. Tonight… was not one of those nights.
*Steps on soap box*
Now, I have no problems with the little ones being at performances, I believe music is an amazing learning tool and plan on encouraging Madison to listen to different types of music and play if she so desires. What I have a problem with is parents who allow their children to scream/fuss/cry while someone is performing. I have a problem with anyone doing any type of disruption during a performance, period.
Now, this couple has a little one, I’m assuming around Madisons age, maybe a month older, that all evening screamed and cried. What did momma do? Continued to play Candy Crush on her phone? What did dad do? No clue, but taking care of little one was not on his list of things to do either.Paid performance or not, people are there to listen to the performer(s), not your kid wailing next to them. Please be courteous and either attend to your child’s needs or take them outside to let them calm down and then return. As a performer once in my life, it’s appreciated to not have to out voice your child. And as someone sitting in the audience, I am there to enjoy my time and I don’t want to have to struggle to hear over the fuss.
Yes, I play on my phone but Madison is my first priority. I know where she is the whole time and what she is doing. I play with her, cuddle her, talk to her, and attend to her needs. I know when her squeals are happy or if she is upset about something and I take care of it. My phone is not a priority. If my phone is out while Madison is awake it’s to take pictures of her or to move her attention away from something else. One thing you’ll never hear me say is “I’m playing a game, she can wait”.
After this family left, we got appreciation for not being parents that let Madison just fuss and for being considerate of others. Also heard acknowledgment of my constant work on her eating and sleeping schedule.
Hopefully the family will be more considerate next time, not only for Wednesday nights but for all performances in their future.
*Steps off soap box*
In other news… Madison stood up on her own today! Of course we tried to get her to do it again and she wouldn’t. Pepper and Koda better get ready cause they will be running around here soon, I have a feeling!